I get it now. You are right. I am learning this slowly. Still have a hard time not laying blame elsewhere and trying to find answers in other peoples head. Someday. It's a long lonely road to wander for me. Thanks. (no apology needed BTW)
It is better to be Dragon Master than Dragon Slayer. Some Dragons are meant to be mastered, others meant to be slain. Odin, Great Spirit, God, grant me the wisdom to know the difference. "May the Valar guide and bless you on your path under the sky"