I am realizing that it is equally important to be yourself and have a sense of how to survive - in

the immediate
future sense -


I am looking forward to marrying My future lover -
having kids and passing down the knowledge that i have found and learned that works from day to day taking care of the basic needs - housing clothing etc..
and also knowing when it is cool to splurge on fun stuff- like bling:-)lol or whatever)

to future moments in life
school -
marriage -
starting life -
retiring -

and for this child to know he or she can marry whomever he or she wants -
but to have the survival tradition knowledge - joy in taking care of himself -
self pride and value -
able to
add to that tradition for whatever
he find works -

and then knows that
he should pass that down too -
-teaching is essential -

When am in a relationship - and i hope -
someday he and i will get married
and have a family too!


"...do not look outside yourself for the leader."
-wisdom of the hopi elders

"...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous