mcch of the abuse has taken away our stability in the fight to define ourselves in our daily lives and to reinforce that identiy with positivity - that understanding of ourselves -

it is up to us to define ouselves now - as much as we would like maybe not to have any struggle - we are strong enough to define ourselves and rely on ourselves to remember this -

i think we need to see each of our needs and give to that - and define ourselves with reason and compassion in mind -

" not look outside yourself for the leader."
-wisdom of the hopi elders

"...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous