Currently, I am in a relationship where the issue of adult male survivors of sexual abuse has come up. Certainly there is a lot of anger on my part because of what happened to me, but it is also affecting my partner. I love Ed very much, but when I see something like a flashback, he is most likely in the crossfire - and he is paying for it dearly. I think that I am pushing him away for a number of reasons: the most important one being my behaviour - anger. All I need is for someone to assist me through this mess - I am making efforts to focus specifically on this matter when I arrive in Vancouver this September. But it would be nice for me to hear from someone who may have gone through this already. I lost one relationship, and am not about to lose another becasue of how I am dealing with the issue.