things are good today -

challenging but good.

it's real overcast - like some San Francisco mornings - as I recall -

I walked to get coffee -

down to Timothy's on Church.

I dunno I just wanted to share this idea -

I talked to a neigbour who

is REALLY charming and REALLY nice -

He has been partnered a while now -

and we talked about things - and he said -


he said - it's interesting how once you're together

you realize every decision you make
affects the two of you

it's no longer just me - but 'us' -

it's neat -

because -

He is an established wedding planner -

his husband - is a flight attendant -

and I've never seen two people so happy together as companions -

and so ardent - when they are feeling closer


just a good idea


" not look outside yourself for the leader."
-wisdom of the hopi elders

"...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous