My brother just revealed to me and my sister that he was molested by our Uncle (mom's brother)when he was 13. He is now 40 and my Uncle is in his 80's. Should we tell the rest of the family? My mom died last year and my brother did not want her to know, but now should we tell my dad? My uncle has a son and a grandson. Were they victims also?
My brother still fears that my Uncle will harm him or his children (my brother has a son and daughter). Will my brother feel compelled to abuse someone at one point in his life? What should I do with this knowledge? My sis-in-law knows.