Sad Wife is like right on top of this stuff!!
All i can say is a big "ditto"
He was molested, your not over reacting. You can't know how it has effected him unless he tells you and you have to take what he says at face value, if he wants to dig into it or if it causes problems in your relationship then you have a say in it too, until then, i would say be supportive of him.
I asked him about this law he spoke of, he said,,, *watch* he then asked the others to share about their lives,,, the others talked of how things were for them, how things worked in their lives,,, and as they believed, it was so.