Well at least it is good to know that I am not the only woman going thru this.

Take a breath, say a prayer, and perhaps go to a Alanon meeting, to first deal with the alcohol problem.

My husband masks his pain with marijuana, although he "doesn't have a problem with it". One arrest, a search coming thru customs, and his carrying it to Greece, and I guess I disagree. He too gets high right before he goes to bed, and also has problems sleeping.

I will keep you in my prayers.