My boyfriend of three years just told me that he was molested by his Uncle when he was a child for years. This has been really hard for me and I know for him. He told me that he has never shared that secret with anyone before. He tells me that he has dealt with it but when I look into his eyes I can tell there is still a lot of pain there. I don't know how to help him. I got that book by Mike Lew because someone recommended it and hope it will help. I think we should go to counseling but I'm not sure how to ask him. Does anyone have any ideas? I would appreciate any support because he really does not want me to discuss it with anyone and I really don't have anyone else to turn to.