Recently i met a very wonderful man that a care deeply for. He has told me that he was sexually abused by a teacher when he was 11. He said that he has sought help for it but that it didn't help him. He is paranoid about the craziest things, his paranoias manifest themselves into illnesses, he doesn't sleep, he thinks everyone is out to get him, he is depressed and has sexual dysfunction. He has 2 beautiful boys from a previous marriage and I am afraid that he is going to pass alot of his paranoia on to those boys. I really want to help him but I don't know where to start. Please help!!!