i was molested by my cousin about 30 years ago and i thought i forgave him. he has been to my house as recently as april of 2000 and we chatted and hung out like guys do.we never spoke about what happened. soon after all hell broke loose and now im in therapy. i wrote to him telling him how angry i was about what he did and asked he never to contact me again. i dont understand how i was able to treat him like a buddy for so much of my adult life and how now my life is in such turmoil. i left my wife in february and am now on celexa(an anti-depressant). i also am seeing another woman. how could things have changed so quickly? i hate him and wish bad things happen to him.