My husband confronted his father about the abuse finally over the phone. His father denied it, told my husband he was lying and making it up or that he doesnt remember correctly and that maybe his mom was responsible. Even worse neither of his brothers defended him as a matter of fact they both attacked him, asking him whats wrong with him, even blaming his "behavior" on me. I have had a few word exchanges with them telling them my number one priority is my husband and son but after his fathers reaction and his brothers i am furious beyond belief and i want to put up for my husband and give them a piece of my mind before we cut them out forever. Does anyone have any links or articles in regards to people who defend abusers? I know these things happen a lot but are no less shocking or enfuriating