I have not known for long about the abuse my husband had suffered. I myself am a survivor and he has know thing since early in our marriage. We have been married for 11 1/2 years. Last August we had a beautiful baby girl. He loves her to pieces. We found out in December that we were expecting again. Today we found out its a boy. My husband really did not want a son. He won't really talk to me about the reasons y but I can guess. He told me he feels nothing for the baby that I am growing. I don't know what to do or say that could help comfort him. I would do just about anything to help my husband. Truth is with this pregnancy so close to the other it's hard for me to feel much of anything with all the stress. Help. Please.