It's strange how, even though you've done nothing wrong, there is anxiety over your struggle and all it entails getting out. I'm not pretending I don't understand so don't read that wrong. I'm simply saying that the nature of this one particular type of crime, in which we are all victims, comes with these barriers/struggles/difficulties that are unique to it alone. If you were the victim of a robbery, assault, arson, etc. you could talk about it til your blue in the face and have no anxiety over repercussion of embarrassment, shame, animus, etc.
The whole world changes in a single bloom- Me in a poem