Hi All

I need a few viewpoints please, I'm at a stage of healing where I feel the need to share some of what's happened to those close to me, does that make sense? my wife knows some of it, I told her around 3 months ago, and she asked me when I told her whether I was going to tell the kids (they are 33, 25, and 19) well at the time not, however I'm not sure.

Will it serve any purpose, is it better for them not to know, why do I want to tell them, am I being selfish, will it help to explain why I've been like I have when they were growing up, did they even notice?

So many questions and I can't seem to answer them