well i had a friend of mine who sat on me til i ejaculated. i tried to leave and he screamed at me for "not kissing him goodbye". i felt ... dissociated is the right word. its someone i care for and this person is no where my physical match but nonetheless i left and was made to feel and look like the bad guy. then when i told a friend about this situation he laughed at me and said it cant be rape if you get hard and cum that "a man's physiology betrays his feelings. "
so even though i was pissed off i was forced then to "apologize" to this person for "being cold" after HE sexually abused me for "social manners" WTF
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