Lancer, I've been a little out of it and not active here lately. I was pretty shaken to see your original post to this thread, so I am VERY VERY glad to find this current update.
Great to hear the doc's excellent report.
No more slackin'. Now drop and do some pushups! ;-)
I have taken to the stand-up comedy stage to educate other male survivors and those who try to love them. I blog about my isolated religious upbringing where physical and sexual abuse were commonplace and I serve as a facilitator of a weekly support group for men who have suffered sexual assault.