Me, too. All of the above, most of the time. Thanks for posing this question, Jude. It's depressing to read how many men here have these effects of abuse, but I guess that it's nice not to be alone. I'm kinda smiling when I write that... but regretfully.
Originally Posted By: Jude
How many here who were abused as boys grew up to have difficulties with sex. Either fear and avoidance of it, or promiscuity/addiction, or porn issues, or gay/str8 confusion, or difficulty with performance, or whatever...all of the above.
I won the moment he hurt me, because he poisoned his soul, and I did not poison mine. I did not hurt anyone. He did. He was the perp. He tried to make me into a victim, but I became a survivor. Yes.