If you ever need an example of someone intellectualizing away abuse... this is it! She's obviously wrong on so many levels that it's remarkable she'd put herself out there as she's done.
Makes me wonder about what her own history holds and what her motivation is? For me she raises more questions than she answers.
"It's never too late to be what you might have been."

George Elliot

"You cannot find peace by avoiding life."

Virginia Woolf