For a couple years after my repression broke I dealt with SSA (same sex attraction) but only acted out a handful of times and ultimately overcame it through therapy, reflection, and help from you all. As far as sex goes I haven't had an orgasm while with a woman since this all began a few years back. I am so focused on her pleasure and unconcerned with my own that I just end up having to fake it. Worse than this struggle is the fact that I have a hard time pulling the trigger/making the move on women for whom I have strong feelings. So basically the more I care about a woman the less I want to have sex with her and when I do not know her very well I am completely focused on her needs. I guess I have intimacy issues or something : /
"Life is like this dark tunnel. You may not always see the light at the end of the tunnel, but if you keep moving, you will come to a better place." ~ General Iroh