Hi: That is just what you explain to the therapist. Remember your paying for his/her time and advice. Do not hold back. I am very happy to hear you are going to take care of yourself. This will also put you in a better position to be of help to him. Stay strong God be with you.
it is and has been quite a trip thru life, as last I feel that I am in a better place, it takes work and in my case a wife the was and is forgiveing and helpful. At last a relationship has gone right, messed up three.