This notion has been my roadblock since i can remember.

Does anyone else have this feature?

When women have been attracted to me, it is unimaginable that their motives might be sexual. When i hear about female perps or female sex addicts it doesnt compute. I feel convinced that the female brain and psyche lack sexual desire. Or that what they call sexual desire is something totally different like just a general need to couple.

Why would a person be so incapable (unwilling) to appreciate that women are sexual beings?

We have the term same sex attraction. Is there also opposite sex "distraction"?