I'm married and work for a Protestant Church.
I've always respected what Jesus said about anyone looking upon another woman with lust is committing adultery in his heart.
But when I have fantasies about sucking my brother's penis, am I not doing the same thing?
I've recently decided to strive for a purer marriage. We're pretty "normal", I think, maybe even boring.
But today I gave time to fantasies about my brother.
Recently I attended a marriage workshop where looking at pornography was compared to having a mistress.
I'm just as bad, aren't I? Or worse, since we are talking about my own brother.
"This is not my shame, this is their shame." Mona Eltahawy