My broader point is that the statement "Its not supposed to happen to boys" is that the internal voice of the friend or family is saying "boys are not supposed to let that happen."

I was asked how old I was. And my answer is 12 years old. But I don't remember. I don't remember when it started or when it stopped. But 12 years old sounds right. Because if I was 13 then that would make me a teenager and that would never happen to a teenager. So I couldn't have been more than 12.