Thanks, Candu. He was the stay at home dad during the first 12 months a couple of days a week and I think that contributed to his feeling that I controlled everything and he was letting down his family (he also comes from a male-dominated culture).
And unfortunately, it's a no-win situation with the shrink. I've called him before. The therapist he saw occasionally spoke to him, too. He stands by his prescription and believes my husband who tells him he's feeling great and that the medication is perfect...
I will try to get him to go to another counselor with me.
And you're right, my plan B is to turn around and sell the condo.