I can say this. My wife has read several articles and books and has even gone to therapy with me. She has been such a blessing to me. I start tearing up as I type this just thinking about all she has done. Someone made the best one word statement.

Ephesians 6:13

Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her