Hello: Your correct it will be a long road, but keep in mind that with help and patience the road can and will be traveled. A nother journey in life. I would strongly suggest a T who is a PHD who works with MALE surviors. I found it to be easier for me to talk to a man, the shame of talking to a women about myself being raped was just to great for me to talk about, My wife did not find out for several years, Thank God our love was strong enough to see it thru. In the end it has drawn us closer. Keep in mind his, or at least my first sexual experiance was badly pollued, this can mess up a boys whole veiw of sex and what relationships are about. I wish you and him the best in you journey.
it is and has been quite a trip thru life, as last I feel that I am in a better place, it takes work and in my case a wife the was and is forgiveing and helpful. At last a relationship has gone right, messed up three.