F2h - I understand what your view of his marriage is. But since you are not in it and sound like you don't know the wife, I would urge you to insert the following phrase in your sentences and in your mind... "HE SAYS" He says he moved out, he says he despises her, he says she is wicked. I caution you to avoid adopting these pieces of information as fact, so that you continue to protect yourself and so that you get the things from life and love that you deserve.