I am in the same situation. My husband pretends that everything is fine. When I approach him to try to make things better, he says that " I suffer because I want to (humm?) everything is fine". I don't even want to fight anymore. If he says something I just agree.
He even denies that he was abused, calling me crazy for even imagine that he was.
I am sorry for venting my situation instead of being of any help for yours.

Edited by Observador (03/02/13 01:23 AM)