That was a really crappy thing for a therapist to say. In my opinion, some women either are sympathetic to you or they think you are pathetic. I told an ex-girlfriend what happened to me. She then told me I was a sissy, I must have wanted and that I was gay because I did not stop it. She then broke up with me. That was not the reaction I was expecting. I have told three different girlfriends what happened to me and they all broke up with me. Is there a correlation? I decided not to tell any future girlfriend. Male therapist can be just as bad. I had a male therapist hit on me. I would tell him my issues and he would try to manipulate me into thinking I am gay. For someone with a lot of trust issues, I have been much more careful choosing a therapist whether male or female.