I wonder the samething at times. I was abused at the hands of my 13 year old cousin when I was 10. I wonder what it would do to my family as a whole if they knew if my mom would stop talking to my aunt and destroy there relationship together. I to don't want to cause them the pain of knowing I keep this to myself for 20 years. But in the same regard I want them to know so I can feel like I can freely communicate with them again.
What a long strange trip this has been