After many years, I too am struggling with this issue and do not like labels (frankly certain "labels" trigger me).
I have just recently started my journey of healing and have been very confused with my SSA, however day by day I am being to accept it. Sometimes my feelings towards men are very strong and become overwhelming in my mind.
If other people ask .. yes, I am bi .. that's the way other people understand i .. but I'm not a predator I don't go out lookin for it .. if it's offered and mutual .. kewl.
Hope this helps