sorry that a pleasant evening became a trigger for you. i can totally understand that. it is the sort of situation i try my best to avoid. locker rooms are totally out of the question for me. too much history there! but there are surprises out there just waiting to ambush you when you least expect it. it is not always something you can foresee. i am glad that you were able to talk with someone who understands it. and so good that you can refer another potential member here.
hope you are doing better now.
Edited by traveler (02/14/13 02:11 AM)
"My experience has shown me that I all too often tend to deny that which lies behind, but as I still believe, that which is denied cannot be healed." Brennan Manning, "All is Grace - A Ragamuffin Memoir"