Originally Posted By: EdfromNYC
From my experience, I am not seeking emotional bonds with other men in order to be sexual with them. I don't know that is what you are saying but this a tender area. I guess each of us can only relate his own experience.

I think the suggestion has been to form bonds with guys and if it naturally develops into something sexual that means more about my identity then just getting drunken/acting out and regretting it.

Thank you for your response-it's nice to know I'm not alone.