i always have to be on time. my wife tends to not mind being late. that drives me crazy. i will skip an entire event rather than walk in 10 minutes late and have everyone looking at me. for her -it's like the fun doesn't start until she arrives. for me - i need to be lost in the crowd and not stand out. i'm the survivor, in case you couldn't tell.

lee
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"the scariest thing about abuse of any shape or form, is, in my opinion, not the abuse itself, but that if it continues it can begin to feel commonplace and eventually acceptable."
- Alan Cumming, "Not My Father's Son"