i always have to be on time. my wife tends to not mind being late. that drives me crazy. i will skip an entire event rather than walk in 10 minutes late and have everyone looking at me. for her -it's like the fun doesn't start until she arrives. for me - i need to be lost in the crowd and not stand out. i'm the survivor, in case you couldn't tell.
"My experience has shown me that I all too often tend to deny that which lies behind, but as I still believe, that which is denied cannot be healed." Brennan Manning, "All is Grace - A Ragamuffin Memoir"