Lee. Thanks.
(got triggers but nothing there smile )

I will go and edit the older comment. I was thinking friends as being about the same age. We were friends with a family down the street. One boy about the same age as myself, maybe a year older, then his two twin brothers maybe four years older. One of the 4 year older than me was the abuser. That's what I meant as far as older friend.

Yeah I was pretty upset when I considered the brother issue.(as far as my issues to deal with) And since I have no idea what happened I also don't know how much damage it caused. But I know it did.