Within 2 hours of reading your message I had called the book store, put "victims no longer on hold", bought it, and read a few chapters - not in sequence though.
I've been crying through most of it as it has become ever more evident to me that my ex bf is suffering substantially and I can't bare to think of what hurt he has had to endure.
This book is him and I've only read a two and a half chapters.
Once I've read through more would you mind if I PM you for some advice?

Thank you so very much for replying to my post, your advice, time and support.
Thank you.
All the best,
"I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness the astonishing light of your own being." ~ Hafiz

“At the centre of your being you have the answer; you know who you are and you know what you want.” ~ Lao Tzu