When there is a disconnect between what's in your heart and what is imposed upon you, you have to ask yourself why? Am I hurting anyone including myself ? Is this something I , as an equal human being am entitled to? Is this really anyone else's business but me and the person I am relating to?

Finally, no matter what understanding you come to, you are always free to use your own wisdom to interpret the church teachings in best way for YOU.
Otherwise you are dogmatically following others preconceived notions of how you should live your life. No one should be should upon : ) And no one can truly know the mind of god but you can truly know yourself. Follow your heart.

An unrequited life is no way to LIVE.

Edited by 1lifenow (01/11/13 07:42 PM)
The need for love lies at the very foundation of human existence. Dalai Lama

WoR Barrie 2011