Welcome to male survivor.
For me, Recovery is about growth as I abstain from harmful behaviors.
This creates safety and trust in myself to face my problems and not run away from them- over time I get opportunities to grow deeper and work through more challenging issues in my life.
Having men I t overly I trust to share openly with is HUGE. I learned the hard way I couldn't isolate and keep things to myself. Finding Communities of others who share my problems and have the experience strength and hope to share wih me how they are facing those problems is another HUGE part of healing and living forward .
Male Survivor is a special community- I hope you can use what is available here. It has been a bug part of my healing the past several years-
We have to take responsibility for what we're not responsible for.
�It doesn't matter where you've come from,
It matters where you go" Frank Turner