I am only 6 months out from when my life changed forever. Ad in my husband finaaly had to tell me of the abuse or lose his family. He had been acting out some and I had found out. It was rough the first couple of months. We almost did not make it thru together. He started therapy in June, and after the couple of rough patches, there are good moments and still some bad, but those are getting fewer and fewer as months go on. There is hope in what feels like a hopeless situation. Keep.your head up. Hope this helps some.