I just re-read the post about my 'prep' for the meeting. I was really just relaying what went through my head as I got ready and did not intend to give such a detailed discription on my appearance in the process.
To be honest if I read that about someone else I would feel both inadequate as a man and need a cold shower.
I of all people no how fragile our self-image can be. Sorry if my detailed description of what I look like caused problems for anyone. You are all my friends and I am embarrassed to think that I may have done that.