hey Jacob
congratulations on finding a group of people who can totally relate to "stuff happening" sorry that it was part of your experience. I hope you will hang around here and observe maybe chat some I think you will find it to be a safe place full of guys who "get it" i can totally relate to the DR. thing too I go because I have little choice but I to hate it with a passion. hope you find nothing but good experiences.
Either I will find a way, or I will make one.
Philip Sidney