so you know who i am - here is my first attempt to tell my story, a little over a year ago - Nutshell version:http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthr...4704#Post374704
and here is my update as of right now - 2012 retrospective:http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthr...0485#Post420485
Happy new year! may this one be the beginning of a better life ahead for you.
"the scariest thing about abuse of any shape or form, is, in my opinion, not the abuse itself, but that if it continues it can begin to feel commonplace and eventually acceptable."
- Alan Cumming, "Not My Father's Son"