Thank you Keith; I started therapy in January when I was trying to control this and get help without her knowing. It was hard to do, and after four sessions, my therapist cancelled and I never reschedule. It was my out from tough conversation and reliving my experiences. I'm currently looking for a counselor that can handle my issues and assist my wife. thank you for the care you've shown, and for moderating this platform for people like me to reach out to others for help and understanding.
"Because if you don't define yourself for yourself, you'll be crushed into other people's image of you, and eaten alive." (Audre Lorde)