Windblade, ask yourself one question. Would you today do the things that have been done to you to a young boy? If your answer is no then how can you not believe it was abuse?
Just because you accepted and agreed to much of it does not change the fact that it was wrong. You were not mature enough to make those decisions.
Wow, that is a good question. I would NOT do the things that were done to me to any child or teen. I need to think about it. Why do I believe that I could consent, but that an average child on the street cannot? Thanks.