Would like some input and feedback how other spouses managed to get over the pain and betrayal of infidelity and lies?

I can't seem to deal with the pain of being lied to. Of my spouse sneaking behind my back, talking with and being with other women. For months he did this. For months, he lied to my face. He crushed me. He was the one person I never saw hurting me and he did - deeply and in the most painful of ways.

How do you guys deal with this sort of pain? I know that lying and adultery are forms of acting out - but this doesn't help me from hurting.

I just don't know if I will ever get over it.

Edited by outoflove (12/08/12 10:57 PM)