I just returned from a two night get away with my wife. Most of are growth as a couple happens when we get off togeather by our selfs. I am trying to become a more supportive husband and am starting to get half good at beaning a person and showing up in the marriage. That may be giving my self to much credit.
It's the showing up part that I have a hard time doing and then, not for any leanth of time especially when we are back in our regular routine. I am a dreamer a self appointed philosopher, I live in my head. Turns out that's not working well for would be friends and family and I thing it's also a big part of the socialy awkward thing I have going. I am, at age 50, just realy beginning to see and understand this. I realy want to change this part of a very old defense mechanism. A defense mechanism that is a big part of who I am.
Anybody figured this out?
It seams I have two categories of thoughts, those I talk about and those I don't.
The second category seams to be growing.
Take care, M
Just because it's complicated doesn't mean we can't figure it out.