That's great to hear SoccerStar! Make whatever preparations you think are necessary for your comfort and when you are ready I wish you all the luck telling your parents and kids. I know it isn't easy and I know it is scary but you are doing what you feel is right for you now and that is a good thing : )
"Life is like this dark tunnel. You may not always see the light at the end of the tunnel, but if you keep moving, you will come to a better place." ~ General Iroh