Hey SoccerStar
Originally Posted By: SoccerStar
"And I'm dealing with the first recovered physical sensations of when a guy raped me in the mouth!!!" would have been impolitic.

Glad you managed to keep this voice on the inside.

Like you said it isn't about 'winning'. I think you handled it well - it would have been so easy to bite back to 'put her in her place' so to speak. Like Traveler said - you showed maturity and growth by your response/attitude towards your wife.

Thanks for sharing smile
More than meets the eye!