Thank you ela.

I did not find anything illegal. I do have another question. I've read that children who were abused don't necessarily go on to abuse and that comforted me because I have two daughters (7 and 16). Again, there was nothing illegal in his email and he shows no signs of being an abuser, but how do I know it won't manifest at some point in the future? We don't live together and he's never been left alone with my girls. He actually is very good with them and is overly aware of social norms, etc. But I know that he wants children of his own at some point and I'm wondering if I'm being too cautious by worrying about this or is it a legitimate concern? If we're going to move forward with our relationship and if I'm even going to consider having more children, I feel this is now a consideration.